Month: October 2017

Pre-Holiday Whole 30 Wrap-up: the Good, the Bad and the Cheating

In early September, my family spends a week at the beach. It’s the only relaxing vacation we ever take. Because I was so relaxed and had the opportunity to take long walks all by myself, I actually had time to think! One of the things I thought about was trying another Whole 30 sometime this fall. Then one morning, while walking on the beach, I was listening to Jen Hatmaker’s “For the Love” podcast and she just so happened to be interviewing Melissa Hartwig, the co-creator of the Whole 30 program. After listening to their conversation, I was more motivated than ever to give the Whole 30 the old college try. I have done Whole 30s before, but never 100% according to the program guidelines.

You can read more about my motivation for doing this Whole 30 in my Let’s do a Pre-Holiday Whole 30 Post. Now that it’s officially over, I wanted to share with you all my thoughts, feelings and results from this month of super duper clean eating.

First, the good (and there IS a lot of good):

  • Food: The food was awesome – I never felt like I was being deprived. Well, I should clarify. I did not feel deprived with my meals because they were all tasty and satisfying. When my family broke out the box of chocolates from my hometown, specially delivered to us, I did feel like I was missing out a bit. When we had something big to celebrate and didn’t go out for ice cream (our normal celebratory treat), I did feel like I was missing out a bit. But overall, I did not feel deprived. Here are a few tips regarding food:
    • I planned 30 dinners before I even embarked on day one and that turned out to be the best decision I made. As I planned each week’s meals, I did have to scrounge through my brain matter a bit to come up with breakfast and lunch ideas that were not 100% the same thing every single day, but I had a unique and tasty dinner on tap for each and every night, which gave me something to look forward to during the day – especially in the early evening when I was getting hungry and it wasn’t yet dinner time. Knowing a delicious dinner was coming kept me from snacking.
    • I worried a bit about showing you meal plans where two out of three meals a day are pretty much the same thing every single day. As it turned out, keeping breakfasts and lunches pretty mundane was helpful. Otherwise, I would have been cooking all day, everyday, and even a food blogger has other things to do!
    • Occasionally, I did not eat enough at my meals and needed a snack or woke up ravenous. I learned that I needed to make sure there was enough fat in each meal in order to make it through to the next meal.
    • A little snack before bed helped me sleep better. Carbohydrates cause a release of dopamine, which has a calming effect. Plus, I woke up very hungry most days, yet I felt like I really couldn’t eat more at dinner. I don’t want to stuff myself because that doesn’t feel good. A small snack of nuts and some apple slices an hour or so before bed was helpful.

For your future Whole 30 motivation, here are some of the amazing meals we enjoyed…

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  • Pain: About two thirds of the way through the month, the arthritis pain in my feet was noticeably better. I am limping much less. I even feel like I could break into a jog now and then. For the past few months, I have been experiencing an unexplainable cramping/sharp pain in one of my feet that comes on only when I’m in bed. Around day 24, that quit happening. Or else, I was sleeping deeply enough that it didn’t wake me up. Either way, that was a blessed occurrence.
  • Energy: The “tiger blood” lasted for all of one day, but my energy level was steady throughout my days so I have no complaints in the energy department. In the past, one of the positive results I’ve felt from even a half-hearted Whole 30 was really great, satisfying sleep. This time around, I’m actually sleeping fewer hours. I kept expecting to crash at some point during the day, but my energy level has been sustained. Maybe there’s something about this way of eating that makes me actually need less sleep.
  • Weight: I’ve lost 3.5 pounds, which was definitely needed. And I need to lose more, but it was nice to see the scale move in the right direction finally. Especially, since I was eating enough to feel satisfied and really enjoying my meals.
  • Skin: No breakouts whatsoever.
  • Allergies: Right about the time I started the Whole 30 was exactly when my fall seasonal allergies typically surface. I have had zero issues with allergies so far.

Now, the bad:

  • I didn’t finish the full 30 days. This is entirely my fault. As well as I had done the whole time, I really thought I could survive a vacation at the tail end of the thirty days and resist all the goodies. In fact, I did resist the cookies I baked for my family to eat on the trip. I did resist the ice cream they enjoyed one afternoon. I did resist the chips and the gluten free bread. Honestly, those things didn’t hold that much appeal anyway, but they are something I would have indulged in pre-Whole 30. But when it came to the gluten free pizza at the end of day 28, I could not resist. And then top that off with gluten free key lime pie. I was just done. Those were special foods. Well, the pizza wasn’t special in that I can get that lots of places, but this particular pizza was extraordinarily good. The pie, however, was unique. I’ve never seen gluten free pie in a restaurant. Yes, I make a really good, low sugar, primal key lime cheesecake/pie that is pretty darn tasty, but this was different. I was on a high from our exciting biking adventures and I wanted to share in the treat with my family. I wish I would have finished the 30 days. Even as I write this a few days removed from the experience, I can’t tell you for sure what I would do if I had the choice to make again: cheat and essentially call it over or don’t cheat and make it the full 30 days. I just don’t know. There are viable arguments for both decisions.
  • Making all the cooking videos and writing up all the posts has taken an inordinate amount of time. And the editing of the videos has taken a lot of my husband’s time, therefore our time together has been somewhat limited. That, I did not enjoy. The flip side of this is that I believe all this work is helping others make it through their own Whole 30. And more selfishly, it will help me with future Whole 30s. I know that I will do this again and I already have a full slate of meals planned, which will make it much easier the next time around.

There’s really nothing else negative to say. I enjoyed the Whole 30. I ate well and I felt well. Emotionally, it felt so good to know I was doing something positive for myself. And for a rule follower such as I, to know that I was following the rules 100% made me feel so successful.




I also learned that the dairy that doesn’t affect my stomach, does in fact affect my arthritis. I used to always think in terms of my Crohn’s disease exclusively. If I eat a certain food, will it cause my Crohn’s to flare? If the answer is no, then is that food really a no-no for me? I thought not. But there is more to my body than my digestive tract. There is more that affects my quality of life. The pain in my feet is a huge one. This arthritis pain keeps me from enjoying things I’d really like to do. So if I can avoid dairy and sugar and all grains almost all of the time and thereby dramatically reduce the pain in my feet and get more joy out of life, then will I choose to do that? Yes, absolutely! Will I also choose to eat the gluten free key lime pies of life that come my way? Yes, yes, I will! They do not come by all that often when you think about it. If you look for treats and excuses for treats, then they’re around every corner, but if you really analyze and think critically, the true occasions for these treats are few and far between. Sometimes, most of the time really, enjoying the time with friends, glass of water in hand, is really just as satisfying as it would be if you had a glass of wine in your hand. Your friend didn’t change. The conversation didn’t change. The feelings didn’t change. Just your beverage changed. And that isn’t a big deal at all.

Bottom line: Do I recommend you do your own Whole 30 if you didn’t do this one along with me? YES! Absolutely, positively yes! But here are my caveats or warnings or maybe just words of wisdom:

  • PLAN. PLAN. PLAN. Use my meal plans (Week 1, Week 2, Week 3, Week 4, Week 5) or search Pinterest, or just use a search engine, but find some recipes that look good to you and write them down. Make grocery lists.
  • Make a list of a few different breakfasts and lunches that 1. you like and 2. have time to make. These will be on repeat throughout the entire 30 days.
  • Buy lots of vegetables that you know you will eat. And then buy some you have never tried. Try to eat at least one vegetable with every meal. They will help fill you up and provide tons of nutrients. A big pile of leafy greens is super easy to eat at any time. Even for breakfast! Make a couple compliant dressings you really enjoy and eat lots of salad!
  • Drink plenty of water. If you don’t enjoy water, try adding some fresh squeezed lemon. Trust me, it can be a game changer. Don’t like lemon? Add a slice of orange or lime.
  • If you used to drink lots of sweet drinks, find some herbal teas with flavors you enjoy. My favorite brands are Yogi and Tazo. Believe it or not, some teas contain sugar or stevia, so be sure to read labels. I drink Yogi Lemon Ginger most nights, but I sometimes mix that up with Peppermint tea or Cinnamon Spice.
  • For coffee, try a light roast (organic and fair trade if you can). It’s much easier to drink a light roast coffee black than a medium or dark roast. If you absolutely must have some sort of cream in your coffee, try NutPods. I drank my coffee black the entire 30 days, but I finally gave in and ordered some NutPods for my next Whole 30 (and beyond) and it has been life-changing! Maybe that’s a bit of an exaggeration, but there’s something about having a little flavor and creaminess in your coffee that makes it so much more enjoyable. The coffee becomes an experience rather than a vehicle for caffeine. Yes, I learned to drink my coffee black and I found a roast with a flavor I really enjoy, but even still, that hit of creamy flavor has changed my coffee drinking experience. I haven’t found NutPods locally at any store, but they are available from Amazon or Thrive Market (see my link in the sidebar). And here’s a tip: you can make your own Pumpkin Spice creamer by adding some pumpkin pie spice and vanilla extract to the plain NutPod and shaking well. Just experiment with the amount of spice to achieve the flavor you want (I like 3/4 tsp. per carton).
  • During the first few days of your detox, you will likely feel very tired and sluggish and experience some headaches. Drink plenty of water, take some headache medicine if you must (try to avoid NSAIDS as they are hard on your gut), allow yourself to nap or go to bed earlier. This too shall pass.

In my humble opinion, for which none of you asked, every single person should do a Whole 30. As I continue to study functional medicine, both with an eye toward my own health journey and as research for a future career, I become more and more convinced that grains, dairy and sugar are going to wreak havoc on everyone. Even if you’re that person who says, “Gluten doesn’t affect me.” In fact, it does. By nature, it’s so very inflammatory, it has to be affecting you in some way. And if you don’t experience any effects now, you will later.

I just finished listening to an arthritis summit, where many of the leaders in functional medicine came together to share their expertise on inflammation, autoimmune disease and realistic strategies to achieve better health and I loved this quote by Dr. Tom O’Bryan, “No one gets Alzheimers in their 70s and 80s. You get it in your 20s.” This is so true. Now, more than ever, experts are beginning to understand that the way we treat our bodies, including stress, sleep, food, and environmental factors, all throughout our lives are causing disastrous long-term consequences. If you’re already in your 70s, don’t let this deter you from making changes now. It will still make a difference.

If you could go for 30 days without grains, dairy, sugar or any other frankenfoods and possibly set yourself on a course for greater health, more enjoyment of your days here on earth, would you do it? I hope the answer is yes.



Whole 30 Day 30!!!!!!

This is the day we’ve all been waiting for!! How are you feeling? Did you make it? 100% according to plan? I sure hope so. Please do share your results in the comments.

As for me, if you’ve been following along, you already know that my Whole 30 technically ended on day 28. Regardless, I aimed to stay as Whole 30 as possible through the 30 days and here’s how I did on the final day:

Breakfast: black coffee, scrambled eggs with sausage and spinach

Lunch: a few slices of deli ham, celery with almond butter, small apple

Dinner: Spaghetti sauce served over spaghetti squash “cakes” with a side salad and avocado lime dressing 

I’m processing through all my symptoms and emotions and will get a Whole 30 wrap-up post out to you soon.

And then I will begin working to catch up on all the regular blogging work that has gone by the wayside for the past two months! I sincerely hope this has been beneficial for you. Even if you weren’t able to make a Whole 30 fit into your life at this time, perhaps when January rolls around, you’ll be ready and life will be calm enough!

Whole 30 Week 5 Meal Plan

I hope you have made it to the tail end of your Whole 30 and are feeling amazing! I hope you’ve discovered a level of wellness you didn’t even know was possible. I also hope you will share with all of us in the comments how this Whole 30 has gone for you.

As I mentioned in the Week 4 Meal Plan, we all know that four weeks only equals 28 days and it’s a Whole 30 not Whole 28. What I have for you here is one more week of Whole 30 approved meals. The only difference is that I’ve included a few recipes from other Paleo bloggers. Each cook has their own style and maybe you like my style and that’s why you follow me (I hope so anyway), but it’s always advantageous to branch out a bit. These are delicious recipes that are worth trying!

If none of these meals appeal to you, simply remake some of your favorites from the first weeks of your Whole 30. There have been some good ones!

Quick tacos over sweet potatoes with salsa cream sauce
Jambalaya
Instant Pot Applesauce
Pecan-Crusted Snapper

Rather than simply providing two more days worth of meal ideas, I wanted to make sure you had another whole week of meals at your disposal because I suspect you just might want to keep going with this Whole 30 thing. If you’re at all like me, you’ll be feeling so well that it will be hard to go back to your old ways.



As I type this, it’s several weeks past my actual Whole 30 completion and I’m right back on the Whole 30 bandwagon. Keeping sugar and dairy out of my diet has reduced my arthritis pain so significantly that it is worth eating this way 99% of the time.

When a special occasion comes up, or a food tempts me that really, truly is unique, I’ll part from Whole 30, but just for that one instance. We’ll see what happens during the holiday season!

Without further adieu, I give you the final Whole 30 Weekly Meal Plan.

Recipes in Pink are available here on the website.

Recipes in Blue are in my book, Your Paleo Holiday, available for download here.

  • Overnight Egg Casserole
  • Ranch Dressing

Recipes in Purple are from other Paleo bloggers and are linked below.

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Whole 30 Day 29 – but not really

Well, what do I say here. I made it almost a full 28 days squeaky clean and I felt really good. But the temptation to try some of the off-limits foods at last night’s dinner was just too strong for me. So I ate some gluten free pizza and a few little bites of pie on day 28. I think that’s pretty darn good.

After my day 28 cheat, I decided that I would still complete the last two days according to the Whole 30 rules. I at least started out well…

We are still in Virginia this morning, but will be packing up our little cabin retreat and heading to the NC mountains for a quick visit before heading home later today.

Breakfast: eggs and bacon and black coffee

Lunch: deli turkey, carrots with avocado dressing/dip and a few plantain chips.

By dinner, I was starving. I simply did not eat enough earlier in the day, which was a set up for making poor choices at dinner.  We were still on the road and decided to stop at this great place on our way called Burger Warfare. Not only is it a fun place, but they have great gluten free burgers and fries. You know where this is going. A dedicated gluten free fryer is a big treat! I chose the Cuban burger which included some ham, pickles, mustard and swiss cheese all on top of a burger and gluten free bun. For my guilty pleasure, as if the bun were not enough, I chose tator tots. My meal was very delicious and I’m glad I ate it because I think this is real life. We cook and eat at home almost always. And I eat pretty much according to the Whole 30 guidelines most of that time. So when we travel or go out, I’ll tend to splurge, because it’s so rare.

I apologize for the poor quality picture. We were inside and it was pouring rain outside so lighting was less than ideal.

I think I like this scenario: Whole 30 eating while at home and only off plan when it’s a special occasion.

Tomorrow is Day 30 and I will once again attempt to go 100% by the rules, but mentally, once the pattern has been broken, it’s much easier to keep breaking it. I will try though.

Whole 30 Day 28

It is a perfect morning here in southwest Virginia! I’m waking up in the cutest little cabin today, about to embark on day two of riding the Virginia Creeper – with kids. If you’re not familiar with the Creeper, you can read my trip report from last summer and learn all about it. That trip report was from last summer and now it is fall, the most glorious season of all, and so it’s even more perfect here now than it was then. I’m so, so thankful to be here.

Breakfast: Black coffee on the porch swing, listening to the birds and the river. Even cream in my coffee couldn’t make this any better.

Once I dragged myself away from the porch, I ate a big salad with two fried eggs, bacon and avocado dressing.

Lunch: After breakfast, we headed down the trail to the town of Abingdon, which is technically the start of the Creeper Trail. This leg of the trip was about 15 miles and took us a little over two hours.

Once in town, we walked around a little and decided on lunch at a BBQ place called the Bonefire Smokehouse. I ordered brisket, turkey, green beans and potato salad. There may have been some sugar in the rub on my brisket, but that couldn’t be helped. The smoked turkey was the very best poultry I’ve ever had. If I could figure out how to replicate this turkey, it’s what we would have for Thanksgiving, for sure! The potato salad was really bland so I skipped that, but I ate all the beans and all the meat.




The big achievement here was that after lunch, we went to this dessert place that has the most decadent looking mini cheesecakes, pies, brownies, cinnamon rolls and on and on. I looked at them and admired them and even wrote down some ideas to try to paleo-fy, but I was fine with not having any. Really, I was. While my family enjoyed their ice cream, I strolled through the antique store next door.

After lunch and a little more walking through town, we hopped back on our bikes for the return trip to our cabin. The hot tub felt really, really good when we got back!

Dinner: This is where my Whole 30 became a Whole 27 2/3. I had done so well this whole time. To my knowledge, I didn’t consume anything off limits the whole time. Until now. And as a result, I feel really good. I’m not bouncing around like Tigger or the Energizer Bunny, but I feel good. I have no stomach upset and the arthritis in my feet is noticeably better.

For dinner, we picked a place which had received great reviews on Find Me Gluten Free: Cootie Brown’s in Bristol, TN/VA. They had tons of gluten free options including pizza and key lime pie! I got the pretty innocent grilled chicken breast with key lime seasoning (not sweet at all), mashed potatoes and cole slaw. I knew the slaw would have some sugar in it, but honestly, I didn’t care. I rode 30 miles today and I was hungry! I ate about half the cole slaw and most of the potatoes, and all of my chicken, which was just half a chicken breast.

The kids pizza looked sooooooo good. I decided to try a bite. It was indeed the best gluten free restaurant pizza I’ve ever had. I ended up having two pieces (they were the small, square pieces – not that that makes it ok).

I suppose my husband was sensing that I was essentially throwing in the towel at this point, so he ordered that gluten free key lime pie. It looked like no other key lime pie I had ever had. They had signs up all over the restaurant stating that they ship their key lime pie so I figured it must be amazing, right? and I just decided, “What the heck!” I’m having a bite. That bite turned into three, little bites. I regretted it. And yet I didn’t. I had weird feelings of remorse and yet elation.

So I made it a Whole 27. I’ll finish out my last two days because, why not? I’ve decided that because I’ve felt so good and the food has been awesome (not to brag) and I’ve felt totally satisfied, that I will give myself two days to eat what I want, then I’ll go right back to Whole 30 eating until Thanksgiving. You can bet that during one of those two days, I’m going to make some pumpkin goodies!!! My family will be stocked up on treats, I will have had a satisfying, paleo treat, and I’ll be ready to go back to my Whole 30 ways.

Edit: I’m writing this up a couple weeks after the fact and here’s a little preview of all those pumpkin goodies I whipped up in one day!! Be on the lookout for the recipes soon!





Whole 30 Day 27

Whole 30 Day 27! I didn’t really think I’d make it this far. I am super proud of myself and physically am feeling awesome! Big temptations are on the way though and I don’t know how I’ll react.

We left bright and early this morning to ride the Virginia Creeper. My husband and I did this same trip last summer and I wrote up a trip report for you. If you’re interested in visiting sometime, you can get more information in this post. 

Breakfast: (at home) black coffee, two eggs scrambled and two pieces of bacon (the picture below is an old one). Same meal, just less bacon this time.

Lunch: We arrived at our cabin just in time for lunch. I had turkey lettuce wraps with a little mayo, carrots and plantain chips dipped in that yummy spicy avocado dressing I made on day 25.

*Note: Plantain chips from a bag are not allowed on the Whole 30. I made an exception because we were traveling, I didn’t want to take the time to make homemade ones and I needed the carbs and calories for our 25 mile ride.

Dinner: After riding over 20 miles, we were hungry! I made hamburgers, hot dogs (Applegate brand, all beef hotdogs are Whole 30 compliant), skillet sautéed okra, sweet potato fries (in the shape of whatever I could cut with the terrible knife at the cabin) and a big salad with avocado dressing.

Dessert: lemon ginger tea enjoyed on the porch swing overlooking a babbling brook. Really. It was lovely.

There is no video of tonight’s dinner prep, but it was all super simple and quick. Nothing fancy, but totally Whole 30 and very satisfying. Actually, this was one of my favorite Whole 30 meals. It will be on repeat around here for sure!

Whole 30 Day 26

Day 26 saw my biggest temptation to date as I baked cookies for my family for our big biking trip. Only by the grace of God was I able to resist the temptation to eat them and therefore, officially now have four days left. As I am nearing the end, I have to say that I will definitely be doing another Whole 30, most likely at the start of the new year.

I hope you have made it this far into your Whole 30 as well and are finding great success. I’d love to hear how you’re doing!

Today’s meals:

Breakfast: black coffee, bacon and eggs

Lunch: cucumber slices with roasted turkey breast and some of that amazing avocado lime dressing/dip that I made in the day 24 video. <–edit: I have talked about that dressing in videos after day 24, it’s all over the meal plans and yet for some reason (user error most likely) my video from that did not record. Boo hoo! I have just made another batch so the video will be up pronto. But in the mean time, you can see the recipe here.

Dinner: Nut-crusted chicken, salad with avocado dressing.

The video of this dinner preparation can be found on my YouTube channel or linked below.

Whole 30 Day 25

Breakfast: black coffee, celery with almond butter and a sprinkle of sea salt

Lunch: salad with roasted turkey, cabbage, apples, cucumbers and avocado lime dressing

Dinner: salisbury steak with mushroom sauce over mashed cauliflower with sautéed zucchini on the side.

  • The salisbury steak recipe includes a teaspoon of honey. Leave that out. It’s just as delicious without it. Honestly, this Whole 30 is making me second-guess ever adding any sweetener to any dish – besides desserts, of course.
  • The mashed cauliflower recipe includes some dairy so just omit that entirely. Cook the cauliflower with one small potato until very soft. Mash, in food processor if you have one, add salt, pepper and a sprinkle of garlic powder or garlic salt and it will be delicious.

You can see me prepare this dish in the video linked below:

Whole 30 Day 24

Oh my goodness, the last few days were hard. I really, really wanted to quit. I wanted to quit and eat some chocolate for my instant gratification self and I wanted to quit for my vacation self because, as I’ve said before, I’m going away this weekend and that’s usually the only time I allow myself treats: paleo baked goods, ice cream, french fries. I am sad about not being able to partake of those goodies this time. Let me put on my psychologist hat for a second and acknowledge those feelings, give them some respect, and then move on.

I wrote the above words this morning and thankfully, I was able to move on and am ready to tackle the next 7 days.

Breakfast: two eggs scrambled, ground sausage, kale, black coffee

Lunch: turkey salad (the same as chicken salad, but made with roasted turkey breast instead) over cucumber slices, 1/4 of an apple

Afternoon snack: black coffee

Dinner: leftover meatloaf from last night (I browned this in a skillet so it would be crispy – yummy!), side salad with avocado dressing and miscellaneous vegetables that needed to be used up

P.S. As I am editing this, I am on Whole 30 Day 5, round 2! A couple days ago, I broke down and ordered myself some NutPods (mentioned in an earlier post). Even though I don’t like flavored coffee, I do enjoy some real, whole cream in my coffee. I am finding myself really wanting to cheat with some cream and rather than give in to that urge, I thought I’d just try these NutPods that everyone is raving about. Well, they came today from my good friend, Amazon, and I promptly added some of the hazelnut flavor to my afternoon coffee. It is deee-licious! I really like the aroma better than the flavor, but the flavor is good too. Who knew!? So if you don’t think you can make it through Whole 30 without something in your coffee, definitely give these babies a try!

Whole 30 Day 23

Prior to working out, I had my black coffee with some collagen mixed in.

Breakfast: two eggs with sausage and spinach

Lunch: cucumber slices with deli turkey dipped in ranch dressing. A few slices of pepperoni on the side.

Snack: I was out running around a lot today so needed more to eat and didn’t have the luxury of being able to cook up some meat and vegetables! Rx Bars to the rescue. These are so filling that I usually get by on only half of one, but I needed to eat the whole thing today.

These bars are allowed on Whole 30 because the ingredients meet their guidelines, however, you are not to eat them on a regular basis because they could very quickly become a candy bar substitute. I know. I’ve done it in the past.

Dinner: Meatloaf, “Fried” Okra, side salad

I made this meatloaf the old fashioned way – in the oven! However, I have made it in the Instant Pot and you can see that video over on YouTube.

You can watch the meatloaf preparation over on my YouTube channel.